This past month has been too busy!  I’ve been babysitting, cleaning, gardening, getting over being sick. OY!

Hoping the rest of May will slow down and easy slowly into a pleasant summer.  I’ve been working on my newest fairy garden…

I won the garden hose, two mushrooms, the river rocks in front of the house, and the pink flower from Teelie Turner’s Fairy Garden.  She has the most awesome and adorable fairy garden accessories that I’ve laid eyes upon!

I made the arbor myself.  I just need to finish it.

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Getting To Know Me

 

All About Me

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Please note:  Not only is this post weeks in the making, but has also been edited many times.

 

I am far from extraordinary.  From the “norm”.  From what everyone thinks I ought to be or from what they thought I would.  I have deviated from the path that other women my age of the world have taken.  I guess it is because I am not suppose to have anything about me that sets me apart from anyone else.  I am a Plain person.  Of course, I am quite unique in my own way.  I enjoy things that other people might shy away from or think weird.  I really enjoy the company of my praying mantises and my horse.  I am fiercely independent and enjoy solitary activities such as embroidery and reading and bible study and photography.  But there are times I like to socialize.  I have a group, Beauty In Decay Project, where a few of us get together and explore abandoned buildings, homes, and sanitariums.  We explore in the tri-state(NY, OH, and PA) area.  It is a photography and a preservation project.

 

I have never come oupro-pic-march-2017t on my blog and explained WHO exactly I am.  My name is Heather.  I am 33 years old.  I am happily married and have a 15-year old stepson.  I think I never explained because I just haven’t had the exact words to do.  Or perhaps I fear that people won’t understand.  I follow the Mennonite religion, though I am not a baptised member of any church.  The closest church is over an hour away, but I don’t have a ride there or otherwise I would go.  I pray every day that the Lord would plant a seed in my town for a church.  I do what I can to follow the Lord in my heart, my actions, and my thoughts.  My family doesn’t understand it.  My husband doesn’t understand it and wonders why “such a beautiful girl would dress this way”…actually I get that a lot.  I try and try to explain until I am blue in the face that it has nothing do with that.  I am not dressing for other people.  I am dressing for the Lord.  My husband, it is not that he is not a Christian, he is just not as devout as I am.  I want something more out of life.  I am in the world but not of it.  I want to spend my life after death with Christ.  But I don’t want to sit here and seem “preachy” and have you click away.  I want to introduce myself to what followers I have(thank you very by the way) and to any future followers I have.1-peter-3-3-4

I think, after my best friend moved away a month after I was married, it really affected me and I never went out and seeked any other friends.  Also, I suffer from fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, hemiplegic & basilar migraines, herniated discs, and disc degenerative disease, and live with chronic pain daily, so that does not help in going out and seeking a social life.  Plus I cannot work because of all of this.  I’ve had over a dozen surgeries and countless medical tests in the past decade and a half, so I’ve been quite isolated and not had a whole lot of opportunities to go out and meet people.

1424697843259However, my best friend and I still talk.  Thankfully, she still has family here in town so she pops in and every now and then when she’s in town.  She’s the greatest thing since sliced bread, that’s for sure!

I collect a few things.  I collect vintage cameras, nutcrackers, owls, and model horses.

 

I really, really want to add these two to my collections:

Currently I Am eading:

 

Currently I Am Watching:

 

Looking forward to: 

Hulu’s tv interpretation of Margaret Atwood’s classic novel, “The Handmaid’s Tale”.  I’ve read the book and watched the movie, so I am excited to see how well this turns out.

 

Some East Embroidery Projects:

 

Current Embroidery Projects:

I love house plants!  I am amassing quite a collection…

I also have a fern, a parlor palm, and a Dracaena.

I also collect knives…

Those are just a few that I have.

 

A little more personal…my Chris and I, our anniversary is 15 August 2015.

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This is my dear husband, Chris.  This was shot at The Bistro.

Chris works at a local restaurant, The Bistro.  Though it’s run by brothers from Pakistan, it includes a mix of fine American and Paki dishes, but more American dishes.  It is one of the two 4-star restaurants in Olean, NY.  They have dishes here that you would more commonly find in a big city compared to small-town Olean.

I am a stay-at-home housewife.  I am on permanent disability because of my back and other chronic and debilitating health problems.  I have 6 herniated discs in my back, two cages, and disc degenerative disease.  I’ve had two back surgeries.  I suffer daily from chronic pain as well as severe basal migraines several times a week.  I also have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue.  I also have bouts of IBS too.  This is not an inclusive list but I will say that a decade ago I hemorrhaged for three days which led to an emergency DNC and a hysterectomy a week later at age 28 after suffering for a decade from severe endometriosis and four surgeries from that.

I do what I can to bring in a meager income to add to our family balance.  I sell some of my embroidery locally plus I am a “mother’s helper” to my friend Mara.  I watch her daughter while she is at work until her husband gets home for a couple a hours and she pays me for it.

I stay active but some days it is very hard.  The 15 medications I am do alright for the most part.  I suppose I could be a lot worse off.  Nothing is a 100%.

My favorite seasons are spring and summer.  Fall is pretty and I absolutely loathe winter & snow.  My favorite colors are lavender and cream.  My favorite soda is Dr. Pepper and cream soda.  I love the clean scents of hyacinth, lavender, vanilla, and cotton.  I love being out of doors, out in the woods or by some water, with my husband fishing or out on the kayak, with my just wandering around, checking out the nature, taking pictures, and notes, and samples.  We love to go camping.  I love to explore, hence the urban’xing.  Want to see a cool shot I took last summer at an abandoned tuberculosis sanitarium?

 

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This was a patient’s room. Since this was TB hospital. these doors opened so their bed could be wheel out any season so they could reap the benefits of the fresh air. Back then, it was believed the fresh air would cure the TB, no matter what time of year. I just love that peeling paint! It is the lead in the paint that makes old paint like that peel. This place is located in WNY.

From time to time, I may share some shots on here with you I’ve taken for my “Beauty In Decay Project” or for my personal photography.  I absolutely love to shoot nature and wildlife, and landscape  photography.  Here is three more great shots I got last summer…and btw, usually any shots that I post are for sale.  All you have to do is contact me.  I also sell prints for reasonable prices and I frame and matte them myself too!

Three long trees in a field just before a storm…
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He snuck up on me!
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This is the last look he gave me before he left.

I really, really hope you’ve enjoyed this post.  I’ve put a lot of time and effort into this.  Like I said before, it’s been a few months in the making and been through edits multiple times.  I’m kinda nervous about putting this out there lol 🙂  I am just nervous about negative feedback is all.

If you are encouraged or informed by something you have read here at Ramblings of a Plain Girl, please consider liking my page on Facebook or simply by leaving a comment below.

Heather

March’s Full Worm Moon

March’s Full Worm Moon is named for the time when the ground softens…

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It’s the first Full Moon of Spring, although in many locations, this Moon arrives between the seasons. As snows melt and chlorophyll rushes up to green the grass, earthworm castings begin to appear everywhere; this draws the robins, the plump and friendliest of backyard birds. It’s a time for leaping forward and for clearing any remaining cobwebs, for releasing what doesn’t serve your future growth.

At the time of this spring Moon, the ground begins to soften and earthworm casts reappear, inviting the return of robins. This is also known as the Sap Moon, as it marks the time when maple sap begins to flow and the annual tapping of maple trees begins.

Snow slowly begins to melt, the ground softens, and earthworms show their heads again and their castings or fecal matter can be found. Other signs of spring gave rise to other variations: the cawing of crows (the Crow Moon); the formation of crusts on the snow from repeated thawing and freezing (the Crust Moon); and the time for tapping maple trees (the Sap Moon). Christian settlers also called this the Lenten Moon and considered it the last moon of winter.  It has also been called the Death Moon.

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The Full Worm Moon will light up the skies Sunday (March 12). This will be the last full moon of the winter season, rising just eight days before the vernal equinox, or spring.

In the U.S., the moon will be at its fullest at 9:54 a.m. EDT (1454 GMT). Because the moon rises in the evening for viewers along the East Coast, many Americans will not see the moon at peak fullness. The moon, however, will be between 99 and 100 percent illuminated from March 11 to March 13, so there will be plenty of time to check out its brightly glowing face.

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Skywatchers in Hawaii will be able to catch the exact moment the moon is fullest before sunrise, at 4:54 a.m. HST, while those in the Middle East and surrounding areas of the Eastern Hemisphere will see the moon reach peak fullness after it pokes over the horizon in the evening.

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The Robins Have Returned

“When Spring returns, the Earth becomes a child who recites poetry.”

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Shot on 06 March 2017 in Olean, NY by Serene View Photography

When Spring returns, the Earth becomes a child who recites poetry.

There’s a reason we “start singing that old sweet song when that red robin comes bob bob bobbing along.”

Foremost, the red robin is a portent of spring. Robins are one of our first visual signs from the animal kingdom that the return of warmth is on its way after a long winter haul. This is a time for celebration! Bird song returns to the skies, little buds on trees are ready to burst open, and the spring flowers are poised for blooming. At long last we can put away our coats and mittens; the first red robin has been sighted!

The red robin reminds us it’s time to shake the sleepiness out of our head (both figuratively and literally), get alert, get moving, and start enjoying life! Spring has sprung, tides have turned, and no matter how crummy or grey our world has been it is time for new beginnings! Enjoy the bright road ahead because it’s only going to get brighter!

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Shot on 06 March 2017 in Olean, NY by Serene View Photography

 

Not only is the robin a promise of new beginnings with the new cycle of spring in our midst, it carries symbolic meanings of cheer, joviality and light-heartedness. We can see this in the spring of the robin’s step, and it reminds us of that wonderful song I quoted in the intro of this post. The song also hails the message: “Live, love, laugh and be happy” and that is precisely what the symbolic meaning of the red robin tells us too.

34 Years Upon This Earth

A great dessert is best shared with a good friend…

34 years upon this earth doesn’t seem like a very long time but it has been such a blessing nevertheless. My birthday was actually yesterday, 22 February.